? , or , ?
I will show you a famous place where the comma is there, but the "?" seems to be missing and then show where it should possibly be, plus a more elegant alternative.
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To be, or not to be, that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,
Or to take arms against a sea of troubles
And by opposing end them. To die—to sleep,
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks
That flesh is heir to: 'tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep;
To sleep, perchance to dream—ay, there's the rub:
For in that sleep of death what dreams may come,
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil,
Must give us pause—there's the respect
That makes calamity of so long life..."
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a) To be, or not to be?, that is the question:
or, better a long dash (visual improvement and yet does not lose the intended pause)
b) To be, or not to be? – that is the question: