I think there was some miscommunication. I just offered that I would stop posting in the forum not to distract you since, as I understood, you had to focus on some work. If there's any beef, silent days are not my speciality, which ISayMoo can confirm
Everything needs to be fixed on the spot, or I'm paralysed by stress. Some girl at work once told me that every time she disagreed on something with her fiancé, she gave him as few silent days and he always backed down. This suggest that my weak character is not sex-specific. AFAIR, the guy was a little bit of a crazy cat-person though. Which type are you, assuming one can generalise?
The violets are stunning though. There are whole lawns on them in the forest where I grew up. And even more anemones. And yellow marsh marigolds in the grass fields through which the rivers flow.