Don't even joke about it. Last night I had some innuendos intervened in business messages by my collaborator: first something about benefits of pole dancing (he recommended it to me) and next about his fantasies to have a nice friend who would dance for him... I shut him up quickly, but thinking about the whole situation still makes me sick and a bit scared.
Hopefully you are not serious, but if so beware of forum karma. Is there a chance he knows about your presence here?
Sometimes it seems all in good fun, or edgy, but contained in this little world.
That’s not necessarily true though. So if you are fortunate he will back off, but he might also enjoy making you feel sick and scared.
Take care and good luck with this little problem.