I am looking for a good approximation ... there are many out there but ideally it should be
1. Ideally, [$]C^\infty[$] smooth (a tempered distribution).
2. Always positive
3. Preserves/compatible with monotone schemes
4, Works with the PDE for gamma sensitivity
5. A bunch of deltas out there that don't cut the mustard.
6, No handwaving and well-known fixes.
The derivative of Fermi Dirac function looks not bad but I can't see the full consequences. An approximation of an approximation makes things worse?