March 16th, 2005, 4:43 am
I think that your friend shouldn't be pissed, maybe disappointed, but not pissed. Did this person have other offers on the table? If there were other offers, maybe they should subtley mention that another firm had made an offer, and there was a sign on bonus at that firm.I think if this friend is really interested in this firm, and the offer has already been made, it may be too late to get one and they should go ahead and join. Don't want to come across as petty and potentially look bad. Kind of difficult position. I think if the firm is making an offer, doesn't mean they are luke warm, but could indicate that they feel there is no reason to give a sign on if they are a top tier firm, "you should be lucky to work for us" type of situation.Hope that helps.