July 6th, 2005, 12:54 am
To each his own of course, but I find that many people that don't like NYC haven't fully experienced it, while well over half the people who tell me how much they love SF have a hard time telling me what they like about it that doesn't have to do with the weather.I do believe everyone should try to live in both places if they can find time to in their lives and decide for themselves. Having lived in both places for several years each, there is no doubt in my mind I would pick NYC any day of any year. In fact, I would pick London, Tokyo, Paris, Hong Kong, Kuala Lumpur, Helsinki, Zurich, Boston, Chicago, or Frankfurt (in roughly that order) before I would consider spending another few months in Northern California. That is all because of a few personal preferrences I have: I prefer a fast underground system over having to drive and sit in traffic to get anywhere, I like four seasons (even winter), I like beautiful women who know how to dress and speak intelligently about several civilized topics, it is important to me to be able to take short trips away if I want to, I like attending lectures and events hosted by the universities and the financial community, and I like having a world of different cuisines and services never close and never more than a few steps away. You can certainly see that several of the cities at the end of my list miss many of these things, but the Bay Area manages to be mediocre to poor at just about all of them.People are individuals, but if I were to stereotype a difference between New Yorkers and Northern Californians, it is that New Yorkers almost above all else, respect time, since they know that is what life is made of. Californians who visit often take the direct and efficient approach as rude, and have a very different attitude towards life.farmer is quite right about "assembly lines" and numbers of opportunities. The thing to focus on is how important career is to you and whether you want the best job in a place your personality may need to adapt to, or whether you will live where you want to live and more likely than not have to settle for professional opportunities far below your potential, which is fine if you "work to live, not the other way around".London, as far as I have seen, has even more finance opportunities than NYC, so do considering it before sacrificing that testicle. SF does have several funds and botique banks, and many people there know each other, which can be a good and bad thing. My corny reply would say that testosterone is a liability in SF, but an asset in many of the other cities I mentioned, especially NYC...good luck...