October 11th, 2008, 1:21 pm
There is no general answer. If you can't figure out this basic decision based on the specifics of your situation, I don't know what your brain is good for.This can't happen much unless the second employer takes a while. Since you applied before you got the offer, and they didn't respond before you accepted the offer. If someone wants to take a while, I would say screw that person. They are already costing you, before they have even paid you. I would bust up that relationship instantly and never waste my time talking to them again.I would decide if I want the existing offer, then inform the other people them I am no longer interested if they don't provide an answer instantly.It seems a strange career decision, to get into an area where there are so few employers that you can't turn down a job you don't really want. Can you imagine a surgeon having this problem with patients, or a lawyer having this problem with clients, or a grocer having this problem with customers?If you spent years and many thousands of dollars on college, and then there is only one (or zero), maybe two people who can enable you to do what you want, it seems you are pretty dumb. What a waste of time if you can't even get one offer doing what you envisioned yourself doing.
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farmer on October 10th, 2008, 10:00 pm, edited 1 time in total.