July 25th, 2005, 4:11 pm
Quoteby other people in the company that I fit them well.The first question I wonder is how can you be so sure that you have been discriminated? What makes you think that the fact that "other people in the company told you that you fit them well" is a sure sign that you should have had the job? Maybe you suited them well, but they also found someone else at the end of the round who suited them even better.. Who knows? And are you sure that those people were objective, and they didn't speak to you in those terms because it was the easiest thing to say to avoid the hassle to have to explain themselves?I don't know anything of your background, so I've to believe that you have been incorrectly discriminated.Still, I've a thought... if I have the chance of employing someone I like to know that we think in somehow that is similar, and asking some of the questions that you consider personal is just a way to see how much affinity there is.Two examples... once I had to interview a guy, and I didn't like the fact that he didn't specify his age on his CV. The reason for me wanting to know, is that from the CV, it wasn't clear how long it took to him to get his degree. Had I asked him (I was suggested not to ask), I wouldn't have done so to discriminate on his age, but only to have a better idea on his skills... Another example... Many fellow Italians of my age opted out of the compulsory military service not because they honestly rejected war and violence, but because they could have worked in some public organisation, close to home, 9to5 job and the possibility often to study while there. Since I did my service with the idea of serving my country, i tend to think of these kind of "objectors" as people who tried to be smart taking advantage of the system. In my mind, if someone takes advantage of the system once, their way of thinking might justify being "smart" again, maybe the day when I'm working with them and I mostly need their commitment and loyality.So if two persons seem to be equally skilled, I'd rather go for the one who did serve his stint, because I'd feel I can trust them more.Would I be discriminatory if I asked such a question ?gc
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